Two days ago at five in the morning he run out of the house we live near the water and my first thought was he jump into the canal in my night gown I took the car and started looking and found him at the end of our street and he blame me because his house was far away and I didn’t help him to find it😢😢
I’m so sorry.
Join a Alzheimer/dementia support group. Your's is not a new story.
His complaints have nothing, NOTHING, to do with you.
All the best.
Your husbands brain is now broken and will never get better only worse, so please don't take anything he does or says personal, as he no longer can control any of it.
It's heartbreaking, I know, but you now must do whatever it takes to keep him safe.
I wish you well in finding the right memory care for him.
I agree with the other posters on this thread. None of this is your fault.
Please speak to his doctor about recent changes in his behavior. Perhaps a medication could help him cope better.
Wishing you and your husband all the best.