Mom is 90, lives in a senior facility, w/24/7 caregivers by her side. She wants more freedom from them, so am considering assisted living. She has always said she will not go into assisted living, but that would be the only way she could have this freedom. Right now she has a period of 3 hrs. of 'free-time' alone. But I've been told by the facility that I'll just have to make the decision for her and do it. What will that do to my mother?