Hi there, Since I’ve become my mom’s care provider about 4 years ago, I’ve noticed how bad my memory has become. It started about 2 years ago, or so. Anyway, those close to me don’t think it’s a big deal; including my doctor. So where do I go now? Does anyone know what specific words I can use the next time I see the doc? Family & friends tell me it’s normal for this to happen after retirement because a person isn’t required to “be on the ball” like they were when they were working. I retired when I was 56, now I’m 62 and it’s frightening how bad my memory is! Any advice? I’d appreciate it. Thanks!
Take care of yourself.
When I had to start getting up every couple of hours to help my DH void, I was staggering around the house worse than he was.
The fact you know you have a problem - means the problem probably isn't as bad as you fear. Start making notes, it helps a lot. And I haven't known what day it is since *forever* but life still continues.
Hang in there honey, it ain't just you.
But don’t be afraid you’re losing your faculties. Caring for ill people will put you in a brain fog. You feel as confused as the patient. But stop worrying about your faculties. Your nerves are probably shot too.
Xanax is not a good nerve medicine however; it causes memory loss. Blackouts even.
I wanted to go see my mom but health wise it didn’t work out and the family chaos also threw a monkey wrench in any plans.