All that’s left of us is my sister, my aunt, and me.
Right now, our immediate concern is losing the family house she’s in, which is a possible source of income towards her care by renting it out. We don’t want to find out later that we could have hung on to it if we had done something sooner.
We just found out she has dementia brought on by covid (only 66yrs old 😔) and things are moving FAST.
Obviously, her care is top priority, but we’re going to need the income this house can generate if we’re going to pull this off.
I’m afraid the state will seize it to pay for her care, but that would only cover 2-3yrs, from what I understand. Medicaid is only good for 2yrs, according to a Google search. Then she’ll be evicted and homeless??? 😧
I’m so lost it’s nauseating. 😖
Thank you for your time.
kelly
That her home is in Michigan & that MIchigan allows for Lady Bird Deeds is a rare gift that I think the 3 of you should explore with a MI elder law atty and take into account all Aunties financials to see just how long possible it will be till she runs out of her own $ to pay for private pay care whether in her home or in a facility. And plan that either you or Sis can and will move up to MI FT to caregiver for her either to do in home care once she has run out of $ or do it now to have her $ paid for caregivers s..t..r…e..t..c…h out longer.
At a minimum, one of you Sisters need to be there living with her FT at the beginning of this journey. Long Covid is such an unknown, she could be fine in her home with you or Sissy as a companion / caregiver. And be fine for years. We have a friend with long Covid, his executive functioning is gone so he has had to retire but still ok to drive and shop but not able to deal with numbers. Your Aunt could be ok in her home with you around; she’s just 66, it’s so young (most of us answering you on this site are over 66 btw!) Someone needs to go with her to her MD visits and make sure she’s doing her meds and therapy on schedule.
You cannot put any of this on autopilot. & neither can you think that renting the house and dealing with renters - even if it’s fully renovated and looks cute - can be put on autopilot. Please heed the advice posted on others experience in renting….. it’s accurate!
if you & Sissy & Auntie want to keep the place, then all 3 of you need to commit to do whatever to make it happen and be able to use the rare advantage MI Lady Bird deed allows for. You do not yourself have $, but you have your own person to be there and do, which is priceless. Best of luck in all the decision making in the future.
Each State tends to be a little different in monthly income and assets allowed. In my State the assets allowed are 2k. The monthly income (SS and pension if one) cannot go over about $2300. I am just giving you the basics here so u have an idea. What you may want to do is look up Medicaid in her State and see if there is a booklet you can download explaining what her State allows. Then you can always call a Medicaid caseworker to explain things that you do not understand.
Assisted living is private pay. In some States, if you pay for at least 2 years in an AL you can apply for Medicaid. But, the AL has to except Medicaid. If Aunt is in the early stage, she may not qualify for Medicaid so an AL would be the choice. Her house can be sold (at Market Value) and the proceeds used to offset the cost of the AL. If ur State has the 2 yr private pay then apply for Medicaid and she has enough money for the house, she will be OK.
I would not rent. If she has Dementia, she will never be able to return to her house. It gets worse. Renting is a headache. Like said the Township has to OK it. A Certificate of Occupancy is needed each time a new tenant moves in. Painting and carpeting need to be done every so many years. Then there's the tenant...will they trash the place? You live too far away to keep an eye on it.
Imagine if it was for life and people got back on their feet, earning 200k annually and getting taxpayer funded Medicaid? Yeah, not good.
I remember the panic you are feeling all to well. First, breathe! Second, Breathe! Thirdly, get on the phone to agencies local to your Aunt. Area on Aging, county counsel on aging, those searches should direct you to whom to call. They will have lists of the local resources and contact information they will email to you.
Do NOT go rushing half way across the country without some information to help you when you get there.
The hardest thing I learned was that people can be dangerous to themselves and others (passively) and you can not do a thing about it, unless the person has been declared incompetent by a court of law. So you can't force her to do anything. Are you able to speak with her doctor and find out if he would testify that she isn't competent? That's the 1st step, a court requires 2 doctors to say someone is not competent, because taking away someone's autonomy is a BIG deal and not an easy prove.
If you are prepared to be her live in caregiver, in a state you don't live in for 5 years, you can probably save the house, if you can get her to do a deed transfer based on MI law. If not, that ship has sailed.
Medicaid won't take her house but, they will require that she pays all of her monthly income as her share of costs minus about 60 bucks for personal needs, like depends, hair cuts, etc. So she will have no money to pay towards the house. Are you and your family prepared to pay for everything? Because renting it out could cause her to NOT qualify for Medicaid and ALL of the rent money would have to go towards her care, leaving you to pay for everything house anyway.
Sometimes we have to let go of houses to ensure our loved ones get the best care possible.
If you can get her into care, sell the house to pay for the best facility that accepts Medicaid and self pay until she qualifies to receive public assistance.
I would find out where you actually stand based on Michigan laws, then see if you can be proactive or just wait for the crisis that takes all of Aunties choices away.
Best of luck! Remember, Breathe!
You will not make enough money from renting to pay for care. Sell the house and use the proceeds to pay for care. When the money runs out apply for Medicaid.
“FMV” tends to default to current tax assessor value.
AND can become a real problem if the elder has owned the property forever, as it likely has had a ceiling on its property taxes due to its homestead exemption and what ever over 65 elderly / disabled exemptions. So elderly MeMaws annual property taxes quite low and set. If elder fixes the place up or just let decades delayed maintenance happen, doesn’t matter as taxes set. Meanwhile in most areas of the US, every year it’s assessment increased as houses all around them have been sold, or renovated, or torn down & new build, or flipped…… so the comparables on MeMaws house are way way waaaaaay off. That her property assessment is whack, doesn’t matter as their taxes are back from 1999 or 2009 or whenever they hit that sweet spot on taxes. So Memaws 1800 sq ft 2BR 2BA Ft house that’s old unrenovated with vintage plumbing has as its comps the renovated next door 1800 sq Ft 2BR 2 BA house with granite countertops, rainfall shower heads, modern kitchen and everything to 2021 code that sold for 325K. So trying to sell old house maybe worth 150k at the FMV of 325k not going to be easy. But that’s what Medicaid likely wants it to sell for.
My point is, it’s really important to make sure that property taxes are accurate to what the property actually is and if not, file do the annual protest that all taxing districts have.
Try to slow things down and do not panic.
If a move is imminent, start packing boxes, label them carefully.
Here 's an option. If you want the family house, then buy it at market value so that she can have good and enriching AL care until she applies for Medicaid.
Your Google search is completely wrong. If all she has is the house and she needs full time care, she can stay there and receive in home care of a few hours a week but you will have to provide the rest. Or she goes in a SNF, someone who lives in the house pays all taxes and upkeep until she passes. After that there will be a lein on the house which will be satisfied upon the sale balanced to the cost of her care. Which means someone will still have to purchase the house.
Renting out a house is a lot of work and requires periodic injections of cash, which will be unavailable from someone on Medicaid. The depreciation expense deduction is less likely to be useful to someone on LTC Medicaid.
Read the articles on Medicaid on the site that hosts this forum. Then get the Nolo Press book on long term care (and maybe landlording) from the library. Then you can have a base from which to ask questions when you meet with the elder law attorney.
https://www.agingcare.com/topics/104/medicaid
Who wants to inherit and live in this house and how much work are they willing to commit to?
Renting- I was just going to hire a property manager, put the rent in an account, and pay for insurance, taxes, repairs, etc,… out of that account.
Anything left over would, of course, go towards making my aunt comfortable.
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