Are you sure you want to exit? Your progress will be lost.
Who are you caring for?
Which best describes their mobility?
How well are they maintaining their hygiene?
How are they managing their medications?
Does their living environment pose any safety concerns?
Fall risks, spoiled food, or other threats to wellbeing
Are they experiencing any memory loss?
Which best describes your loved one's social life?
Acknowledgment of Disclosures and Authorization
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington. Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services. APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid. We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour. APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment. You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints. Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights. APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.I agree that: A.I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information"). B.APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink. C.APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site. D.If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records. E.This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year. F.You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
✔
I acknowledge and authorize
✔
I consent to the collection of my consumer health data.*
✔
I consent to the sharing of my consumer health data with qualified home care agencies.*
*If I am consenting on behalf of someone else, I have the proper authorization to do so. By clicking Get My Results, you agree to our Privacy Policy. You also consent to receive calls and texts, which may be autodialed, from us and our customer communities. Your consent is not a condition to using our service. Please visit our Terms of Use. for information about our privacy practices.
Mostly Independent
Your loved one may not require home care or assisted living services at this time. However, continue to monitor their condition for changes and consider occasional in-home care services for help as needed.
Remember, this assessment is not a substitute for professional advice.
Share a few details and we will match you to trusted home care in your area:
Follow Babalou's advice - it's good, and will allow the EMTs to feel her leg for broken bones. They can also tell by whether or not she can put pressure on it, and how she stands (or can't stand).
This is an emergency; if her leg or hip are broken, the fracture needs to be addressed medically, and immediately.
But don't let her draw you into agreeing with her refusal to go; she's only hurting and potentially harming herself on a long term basis by her obstinacy.
Its in hers and your best interest to take her for medical attention. You will both be happier after she is treated. You don't want to be accused of neglect or worse. You're probably like me, afraid to offend her..for her safety, do it.
Not only just Alzheimer's or other dementia. Sometimes it is just stubbornness. My husband fell a couple of years ago off a 24' ladder. I came home to blood all over the place. I told him I was calling 911. He said "No, don't call them." I just looked at him, picked up the phone and dialed. He had a concussion and bleeding in the brain. He still doesn't remember the entire week. Did she tell you why she isn't getting medical help? Maybe she thinks she is too tough. My mother would pull her own teeth. She was that tough. Didn't tell me until later. Maybe she doesn't think she can afford it. Who knows. Did she tell you why she wouldn't get medical help? Tell her you love her enough to say, " I am very concerned about you. Either go to the doctor or I am calling 911".
feather, rush don't walk to the phone and call 911. I noticed in your profile the person in question has Alzheimer's/Dementia, and sometimes a person with those memory issues don't feel any pain, and if this person is really hurting, there must be some serious damage.
Bones will start to heal immediately so waiting too long might make the bone heal in an odd position, making it always painful, thus the bone might need to be re-broken and set correctly. Ouch.
Omg, I cannot believe I am going to offer this as a possible viable solution, but here goes: Hide or remove all of the pain medications in the house temporarily. She will go to urgent care or call 911 herself. Rationale: In the long run, the injury needs diagnosis for proper treatment so you would not be helping her if she just lays there, unable to walk, taking pain meds for several months. Pain meds are not the cure. She might need physical therapy, or wraps with ace bandage. She needs to be able to keep moving, protect from muscle loss and blood clots, or this will be it for her.
P.S. She will need the proper pain meds to recover, once diagnosed. Please get her help. Be sure you don't go so far as to get an accusation of elder abuse vs. elder neglect.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
A.
I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
E.
This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
This is an emergency; if her leg or hip are broken, the fracture needs to be addressed medically, and immediately.
But don't let her draw you into agreeing with her refusal to go; she's only hurting and potentially harming herself on a long term basis by her obstinacy.
Bones will start to heal immediately so waiting too long might make the bone heal in an odd position, making it always painful, thus the bone might need to be re-broken and set correctly. Ouch.
Hide or remove all of the pain medications in the house temporarily.
She will go to urgent care or call 911 herself.
Rationale: In the long run, the injury needs diagnosis for proper treatment so you would not be helping her if she just lays there, unable to walk, taking pain meds for several months. Pain meds are not the cure. She might need physical therapy, or wraps with ace bandage. She needs to be able to keep moving, protect from muscle loss and blood clots, or this will be it for her.
Be sure you don't go so far as to get an accusation of elder abuse vs. elder neglect.
See All Answers