I went to one of my mother’s financial institutions to set up the POA with them and had a very strange experience. First the banker asked if she were deceased and I said no, you cannot use a POA if the person is deceased. She then said that my mother needed to be present. I said, no, the purpose of the POA was that she could no longer transact business on her own behalf and requiring her to be there would defeat the purpose. (The POA had been signed by both of us and notarized, and I had also presented the physician’s letter stating that the POA was necessary.) She insisted, and I said, fine, my mother will not know why she is here or understand what you are asking her or be able to respond coherently, and will likely be agitated and combative to the point of violence, but if that’s what you want to see, I can bring her. She stared at me for a few moments, then backed off of that “requirement," then refused my paperwork on the grounds that it was a copy and not the original. Now I already think something funny was going on because this was a senior banker at a very prestigious national trust institution, who should be well aware that POAs are not for dead people, and that they indicate that the person is incapacitated. But is that something that anyone else has ever heard of?
Our solution was simple: Let our lawyer handle the bank, which she did. No more problem with the bank.
The teller was absolutely correct about why she/he could not accept it.
1. Many POAs may have restrictions and people hope financial institutions will not review and just do what you want to be done.
2. There is a SPECIAL COURT ACCEPTABLE FORM you need her doctor complete. It needs to be done by the doctor who made the diagnosis. You'll be charged a small fee as it must be notarized by the practice.
3. Take your POA AND THE DOCTOR'S notarized letter to the bank branch your Mom's accounts are housed.
4. Tellers rarely understand what a POA is and what it means. Take documents to the Mgr who will forward a copy of both documents to the legal dept who will also review and Legal will give the OK.
5. DO NOT ALLOW BRANCH TO KEEP YOUR ORIGINALS SO GET SEVERAL NOTARIZED ORIGINALS SHOULD YOU NEED TO GIVE AN ORIGINAL WITH THE CRIMPT RAISED SEAL OF NOTARY OR THEY CAN TELL THE STAMP IS TRULY INKED NOT A COPY.
6. The branch will keep these copies after the approval of the Legal dept.
7. All of Mom's bank accounts will be retitled as POA which restricts how the money can be used.
a) YOU will not be able to write checks to yourself.
b) YOU will/should not have an ATM debit card for the account.
c) YOU can only use the funds for Mom's care and bills owed.
d) As soon as Mom decides to cross the bridge you will need to present the death certificate immediately after the State has issued. THIS FREEZES ALL FUNDS.
e) The reason is the State has the right of 1st dibs on the funds for any unpaid taxes, estate taxes, death taxes and how your Mom has requested the money to be used or split among others her Will.
8. You will go through this with EVERY financial institution you need to deal with for your Mom.
9. As POA, you most likely have the right to use Mom's funds, personal property such as her home to request a loan. Yes, you would have the right to place your Mom's property in peril such as a reverse mtg (don't ever do this, EVER).
10. You will represent your Mom in a lawsuit whether she is being sued or she is suing someone. Should you lose, then you will need to relinquish portions or all of her property.
11. Suggestion, get a RESTRICTION ON HER HOME OR ANY OTHER PROPERTY SHE OWNS.
12. SORRY, A POA IS NOT A GUARANTEE THE PERSON IS ALIVE. FAMILY MEMBERS AND IN-HOME CARE EMPLOYEES RIP OFF THE DECEASED ALL OF THE TIME.
13. If Mom has a SAFETY DEPOSIT BOX this too will be FROZEN. You will only be allowed to remove the deed to her burial plot if she has one. THE STATE WILL REQUIRE AN INVENTORY OF CONTENTS. YOU AND A BANK OFFICER WILL BE REQUIRED TO DO THIS TOGETHER AND SIGN OFF. YOU DO NOT HAVE A CHOICE.
The choice of POA acceptance is decided by the company's policies.
VERY FRUSTRATING. I'VE GONE THROUGH THIS RECENTLY AND I'M A FORMER BANK OFFICER.
FYI: IF THE ACCOUNTS ARE WITH WELLS FARGO BANK N.A. YOU WILL BE REQUIRED TO PROVIDE ALL OF THIS INFORMATION EACH AND EVERY TIME YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THEM.
WFB DOES NOT KEEP COPIES ON FILE. THEY WILL MAKE NOTES ON THE ACCOUNT BUT THAT IS NOT A GUARANTEE THEY WILL NOT ASK FOR THE INFORMATION AGAIN.
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO FILE A COMPLAINT WITH WFB HQ in SAN FRANSICO. THE NEW PRESIDENT, CEO WAS THE GUY UNDER JAIMIE DIMON WITH CHASE BANK UNTIL THEY HAD A TIFF.
LIKE A GIRL SCOUT: BE PREPARED.
Hope this helped you as well as a better understanding of POAs.
I see you did challenge the banker, I would continue with that telling them that according to the law you do not need to have your mother present. If they want the original document you could show them the original but do not let them have the original!
When we get calls from our clients who are at the bank and having similar issues the banker, once we tell them that they don't need to have the original they will back down and say "I will have to check with our legal department and see if we can do this." We respond by saying that's fine with us get back to us once you do that. That is usually all it takes.
There is not any law which requires that a POA be accepted by any financial institution or any company.
A notary is ONLY claiming he/she has properly followed the rules/regulations set by the Secretary of State and completed all the proper paperwork.
A notary is not required to determine the validity of the document or purpose.
I am a former Bank Officer who had to deal with these situations as well as having to deal with banks that have merged with other banks AND THAT CHANGES POLICIES.
No, bankers and especially tellers DO NOT enjoy parroting company policy. Actually, they hate it! They are the ones who have to take the verbal abuse from the customer because they have had to deny the request.
Best thing should one be in this situation is to go to the top. I do it all of the time until I find a so-called expert to explain EXACTLY what/why the policy is what it is and then discuss. More times than not, I get my way.
If one is successful with having the bank or whoever they are dealing with, please be sure a THANK NOTE is sent to the BIG WIG explaining the situation as well as providing the full name and dept who helped resolve your issue.
This is extremely appreciated by the employee and many times the employee is set as an example to others as to how customer service is done and they may be given a small monetary congratulation from the BIG WIGS.
It's like UNDERCOVER BOSS.
Remember, one attracts more flies with sugar than vinegar.
Since they claim your mother (or MIL's?) signature has changed, what might you have that's more recent that shows her signature? Did she write any checks at all (one of the values of handwritten checks as opposed to online banking)? Birthday or holiday cards? Notes?
Do you have a conformed POA, with actual signatures and a stamped "conformed copy" on the document? This is what I've used, and never had a problem, but we had cultivated relationships with Chase over decades and we had a good working relationship.
Do you have any idea where the initial military lawyer is these days? All the attorneys I know keep copies of any estate plans they draft, including POAs. And normally they would introduce clients to their staff who notarize any estate planning documents. BOA SHOULD be able to rely on an attorney who would state the document he prepared is still valid.
If not, you might be able to get a short phone conference with an elder law or estate planning attorney on how to proceed. They might be able to draft an affidavit attesting to the validity of the original document and verification of her identity then. If she has any more recent ID cards, such as a (non)driver's license (just for ID), that might assist as well.
Sorry to learn that BofA is being so obnoxious, but it doesn't surprise me.
in the case of my son....he was not incompetent just lived way too far away. He had to sign/notarize an affirmation of the POA. Funny doc...it started with “I________ affirm that I am living still on date _________, and reaffirm the POA executed on _________”. We both got a good laugh.
SSA required a signed/notarize form signed by her Doctor which stated she could not handle her own affairs. SSA will not accept a POA no matter what.....
seems everyone is free to make up their own rules.
something for all of us to be aware of and look into
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There is not a lot of professionalism left in this world and the consumer gets to pay the price. I agree that they should protect the money that has been trusted to them, but they need to be polite and professional when explaining what their protocols are.
My dads bank sent the POA to their legal department and they confirmed with in 5 minutes that it met their requirements. Common sense approach. When in doubt, ask!
Ps. I had access to her online account for years. I always helped mum with her finances after dad died. She made the decisions and I did the online stuff to make it easier for her.
I feel your pain. I understand the bank looking out for there customers. The banking industry is not how it used to be. You had the same banker for many years. They recognized you. Now its 20 yr olds who only work 30 hours so the bank doesn't have to give them benefits.
Boy this post really hit a nerve!
Did I mention I hate Chase bank?
one issue I have had is that the attorney signed the POA therefore there is no stamp. It throws people off on occasion.
sometimes people want to keep the original, they don’t seem to understand that I need that and can never let it out of my possession. I finally went to the UPS store and had several copies made and had them motorized the copies after looking at the original copies.
In my case, the financial POA in question was one I wished to give my sister, in case I should be incapacitated in the future. I'm sure the bank has had to deal with this many times and you might ask a senior officer how this could be handled for everyone's safety.
fact is, banks are subject to intense regulation and any thing sniffing of financial elder abuse is going to raise a flag - most folks working in a branch just don't have the background or authority to break the rules especially when it comes to Know Your Customer compliance
As I said I can't remember how it got sorted out (I think we did have to go through one extra hoop) but that banker always seemed a little scared of me on subsequent visits!
One if the parent did not already have online banking set up.
Two, some banks will allow a POA to sign cheques as POA, do banking in the branch, but not give access to online banking
Three, if cheques are going to be signed as POA, the Bank needs a copy on file.
I do think though that a copy might not be adequate; the firm which I worked for and provided my sister and father's estate plans made "conformed copies". The original was either kept in their safe, or given to the family, but 2 - 3 or more "conformed copies" were also made for delivery to institutions if necessary.
If what you showed the bank officer was not a Xerox copy, then you have a legal copy. The lawyer has his copy and you should have a "legal" copy. I had mine shrunk so I could copy it on my printer. Then I gave the institution the copy but I had the original (on that 14 in paper) available. I am from a small town so I never had a problem with our bank. I did have problems with Moms shares. Needed a Medallion to prove that I was Moms representative.
Seems like u had everything you needed but got a jerk. Maybe call and talk to someone above this officer. May have to contact the main office. Maybe, a letter from her doctor saying Mom is not capable of leaving her home/facility?
Also what you described sounds like the same documents I presented. Thanks for the thorough answer. The bank has a customer service phone number and email and I plan to try those after the holidays.
This was Northern Trust, not Wells Fargo. This is what confused me, because I have always thought of it as a prestigious financial institution, not even just a bank, therefore someone with the title “senior banker” would know how to handle a POA very easily.
Luckily the Lawyer who prepared the documents and had given Mum notarized copies, which are just as valid as the original, was also a friend of step dad. He called the bank in question and read them the riot act. Told them in no uncertain terms that they were violating the law and unless Mum received an apology for their rudeness and the additional stress they put her under while her husband was dying, he would be reporting the bank and the individual employees to the banking regulator.
After that call, Mum received proper services from the bank. It should not have taken a call from a lawyer for the bank to behave.