79 yr old , has 19 pd cat with health issues,diagnosed Pre-diabetes and Fatty Liver disease vet gave meds(pills) for cat. Mom unable to pill cat, I also am unable to pill cat due to cat unable to be handled the vet techs have nick named her the Mean-cat from He--. What can I do to help this situation. Mom lives alone and needs companion of the cat, she's 85 deaf and going blind so this cat is her lifeline in a companion. I am her only caregiver, I do have a Health aide come in once a week.
I had to do this with a girlcat that had hyperthyroidism and had to be medicated twice a day for the rest of her days, but would not swallow a pill for the life of me. Also did it when my previous boycat had a cancerous tumour in his jaw, and I was terrified of hurting him.
Edit: another thing I learned when my boy had cancer....some veterinary medications are available in transdermal (skin) patch form. I had to go looking for the info online myself, when he wouldn't take liquid painkillers (they were bitter). But I wound up getting my boy fentanyl for his pain via a patch. The patch may have to be applied by the vet, depending on what it is (for example, fentanyl is a highly addictive opioid that's heavily regulated). In the case of the fentanyl, the patch had to be replaced every 4 days, but the vet only charged me for the patch, not the visit.
Now what I had to do with a feisty cat was I had to straddle the cat, like I was sitting on a horse, but gently, and quickly squirt the meds into the cat's mouth. It's a learning process to do it quickly. Then after the cat looked at me thinking all sorts of mean things, I would give the cat treats.
Oh, another cat I learned how to give her a pill. If the pill is small, I use to give her treats, then rub my fingers on the treat then rub the scent onto the pill, thus she would eat up the treats along with the pill. If the pill is large, break it in half and do the above twice.
Animals have their own personalities just like we do. We tend not to be happy and joyful when we don’t feel well. If the cat is a rescue by your mom, maybe he was abused as a kitten. He has a reason for being ornery, whatever it is.
My 4 cats are impossible to pill too. Take the prescription and do what Dorianne says. And then find another, more professional vet. Good luck. Hope kitty feels better fast. Poor thing.