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It's not easy - really not easy and certainly for someone outside the care sector would be really hard going but it can be done + you do get help because as soon as you take in a resident you become a care home, but along with that comes inspections etc. Not the easiest of routes but if you are able to select the resident then it can be quite lucrative - get the wrong resident and it would be a nightmare. its all about the dynamics
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Oh also forgot to say she runs training in one of the upstairs rooms for people who are doing familial care. It has to be private - our government doesn't deem it significant enough to fund. Always knew I was insignificant!!!!!
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After seeing what it cost to have professional care for my parents, it scares me silly that I might not have enough to tied me over, but then again I stop to think there is no way I will live to be my parents age, mid to late 90's. I'd be lucky to finish up my 70's. The stress of dealing with them has aged me way beyond my years, thus a lot of health issues :(
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stacyB 74 is WAY to young to be moving in with your kids. I am 73 and my kids BEG me to move in. I won't. I want to be one of these 88 to 95 year old women who is still living in her own home and doing my thing. If he has health issues, of course that is different.
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I'd like to point out that Mom should be paying room and board and perhaps for personal care to the child she is moving in with. Money should also be ear-marked for respite care, so that child and spouse can get away on a regular basis. Mom should be using her money to make her life comfortable and exciting. Maybe she'd like to use some of that money for a cruise or for other kinds of vacations she can still enjoy. She may find a day care program a nice change of pace. Perhaps she will need in-home care of various kinds.

I don't understand why you don't think her money should be used for these things? Doesn't your mother expect to pay her own way? Isn't that what she and your Dad saved for? Money provides a lot of options. Why shouldn't she have the benefit of those options? Personally, I think EVERYONE should have access to Medicaid, just as they do to Medicare at a certain age. But that is not how it works.

If your Mom goes through all of her own money on her own care and her own pleasures, then she will be eligible for Medicaid.

Do see a professional estate planner. But I hope what you will be asking about is how to make her money last as long as it can for her ... not how to hide it for heirs.
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