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New spouce is isolating vulnerable senior. Paid caregiver and live-in free loading daughter conducted a predatory take over of elder while they were disoriented. Rushed marriage for asset grab only.

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What, in your opinion, should have happened instead?
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Reply to Fawnby
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What? Is there a question in all that garbled nonsense? You provided a bunch of words, with no sentence structure or explanation. Please try and provide more information. And who are you to the elder in question?

In any situation where you feel a vulnerable elder is being taken advantage of, or abused, you can call Adult Protective Services and they will investigate.

In California, Call 833-401-0832 and when prompted enter your 5-digit zip code to be connected to the Adult Protective Services in your county.
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What??? This sounds like a telegram or something! We can only guess at what's going on until you come back and clarify using full sentences.
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So I'm guessing since you haven't even used whole sentences that your dad married his caregiver, who lives with your dad, along with the caregiver's daughter. If your dad has a diagnosis of dementia you can challenge the legality of the marriage. Otherwise I guess he decided to marry her. I'm not hearing that you're worried about your dad, just about his money, which kind of puts you on equal footing with his new wife I guess. Except she is at least also his caregiver.
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Call Adult Protective Services in the county the elder lives in and report the situation
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Your post seems a bit truncated. Like the "old fashioned" telegrams where you are paying for each word.
If you can explain a bit better you might get some valid responses.
All that said if you have ANY suspicion of ANY elder abuse going on you contact your States Elder Abuse hotline number and an investigation will be done. The more actual proof you have the better and you will need to FULLY explain what is going on.
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You can report it to APS. If you are not the elder's PoA or guardian then you have no power in this situation. If APS shows up and the elder tells them "everything is fine" then it is what it is.
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It's complicated - you, predatory daughter, rushed marriage for asset grab. Please explain?
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