My Mom lives out of state from me and her sister & her husband have been caregivers for past couple of years while her health has been declining. I have offered for her to come live with me several times (as her only child), but she hates cold weather and refuses. Now she has damaged her younger sister's health to the point that I will have to bring her to live with me whether she likes it or not. She is 'very high maintenance' (mentally, emotionally and physically) and it will be an issue to even transport her from Florida to my state over 500 miles away because of her health (will probably have to use an ambulance to transport). I need to know if there is a list of things I need to get done before I arrange for the move, legal stuff that needs completed and how to handle it all. Is there such a list?