My Mom is 94 years old with Parkingson's Dementia lives with me and I have been her primary caregiver. I just hired a nighttime aide so I could get some rest. Instead I was up most of the night supervising the aide. Is it normal for the nighttime aide to shower in my Mother's bathroom? Also, she slept thru my Mom's nighttime medication and I had to wake her up. I was told the aide isn't supposed to sleep. This was only the first night. Should I let it go or is it time to try a different aide? Also, I would appreciate any best practices suggestions in navigating having aides in the home