We reside in Washington state and have reviewed the information on-line, phoned and emailed, but so far can only come up with the definition of a caregiver. I understand that the guidelines can vary state by state. Should I be keeping a daily calendar? Have a physician sign something? Have DPOA? In my case, my husband and I have lived with my 89 year old mother for several years and as I understand it if as her daughter I have resided in the home for more than two years and am her primary (re only) caregiver we can protect her home (only asset) in the event she needs Medicaid at some point. Just as an added note(s) my brother is deceased, my sister has been out of the picture for 20+ years. Thank you.
Just one more thing, do not be at all surprised if MIA sister of 20 years shows up and wants her half. There are many stories on this site about siblings that feel they are entitled to their fair share after not providing any sort of caring or responsibility for the parent.
Good luck.
For medicaid purposes an irrevocable trust that transfers the house to it , and you as trustee, with the right for her to live & maintain and pay taxes, will protect the house from Mediciad recovery after 5 years. It will also save on taxes if it must be sold during her life, & will avoid probate after passing
You are very fortunate to not have siblings who just have sense of entitlement even though they do nothing to provide for the day to day, 24/7/365 care! In my case this has become a nightmare in spite of siblings knowing and even telling others what mom would want!
Now I wish I had actually moved in with her, then I could have merited her home (currently I am completely unpaid, because she has nothing but her home).
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