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Because of the virus, I can't see my daddy & is so frustrating & sad. I was told that the only way that I would be able to see him is when they see he is about to leave this world. My daddy is everything to me & I'm not handling this well!!
Is your father in a nursing facility or a hospice home? I know that most hospice homes are allowing 2 visitors per patient per day. And it has to be the same 2 people per day, so if he's not in a hospice facility, you might ask for him to be transferred to one, so you can spend some time with him.
Also please know that hearing is the last sense to go, so if you only get to talk to him on the phone, he will hear you.
I am truly sorry that you are having to go through this, but remember just how blessed you are to have a "daddy" that has meant so much to you. You are very fortunate. God bless you.
My dad is in hospice. So I found out 2day that they are gonna let me go see him 2moro. My niece will go with me, so I'm so grateful for that. His vital signs are strong, he's just not awake much at all but with him falling 4 times in 2 weeks, It has taken tole on his body
Maybe have a nurse hold up the speaker phone and you can call him and just say I love you dad. maybe knowing he is hearing your voice will help. Can you set up daily appointments for the nurse to call you so you can say hello to your dad, and tell him some memories of the 2 of you together? Get them written down, so the nurse knows you will only be 2 minutes on the phone. Hey dad, remember that time when: you took me to get ice cream after school, and I dropped the cone on the ground? or whatever your good memories are. did he teach you how to drive? anything funny happen then? I love you dad, I will see you soon. :) be happy sounding if you are allowed these appointments. do not be sad. Make his day happy. Play a song that you know he loved listening to. Prayers are with you. This is hard, but make it happy if you can talk with him. He wants to visualize you with a smile, laughter.
I am so sorry. Stories like this really makes me sad.
I wish you could see your dad. My dad died in 2002 and I can’t imagine not being able to see him.
I was fortunate because there was no Covid, plus the nursing staff and my dad’s doctor never enforced visiting hours. I could see him whenever I wanted to.
I so wish that there was no Covid-19 and you could be with your dad as much as you wanted to.
I’m very sorry you’re going through this. I lost my dad of the same age this past summer. I had much different circumstances than you do, it’s much more complex with dementia and visiting restrictions. There aren’t any good admonitions for you, just know your dad will be at peace, focus on the good memories and what he’s brought to your life, and know you’ll get through. I’m still tearful many times, but am learning to think with smiles more than tears and know my dad is where he so wanted to be and not miserable any longer. I wish you peace
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Also please know that hearing is the last sense to go, so if you only get to talk to him on the phone, he will hear you.
I am truly sorry that you are having to go through this, but remember just how blessed you are to have a "daddy" that has meant so much to you. You are very fortunate. God bless you.
Can you set up daily appointments for the nurse to call you so you can say hello to your dad, and tell him some memories of the 2 of you together? Get them written down, so the nurse knows you will only be 2 minutes on the phone.
Hey dad, remember that time when:
you took me to get ice cream after school, and I dropped the cone on the ground? or whatever your good memories are. did he teach you how to drive? anything funny happen then? I love you dad, I will see you soon. :)
be happy sounding if you are allowed these appointments. do not be sad. Make his day happy. Play a song that you know he loved listening to.
Prayers are with you. This is hard, but make it happy if you can talk with him.
He wants to visualize you with a smile, laughter.
I wish you could see your dad. My dad died in 2002 and I can’t imagine not being able to see him.
I was fortunate because there was no Covid, plus the nursing staff and my dad’s doctor never enforced visiting hours. I could see him whenever I wanted to.
I so wish that there was no Covid-19 and you could be with your dad as much as you wanted to.