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My dad is moving in with me. I’am in Utah. He’s moving from Wyoming and I only have tub shower combos, I was wondering how or if there’s programs that will help me with financial help. Today is July 17 and I have He moves in The weekend of August 1.
I agree with Geaton. If this is too much of an expense, do you have plans for covering the other expenses of having your father live with you? Since you live in separate states, how much time have you spent with him -- are you fully aware of and prepared for his needs?
Plus, asking the question just two weeks before he supposedly gets here could indicate a fuller lack of planning, a greater misunderstanding, of what his mobility is and what will have to happen regarding present and future home modifications. The op should not count on volunteers or charity, particularly expedited.
Cannot afford it? There are many community closets, usually associated with local senior social services. Donated supplies are free. Ask if they have a shower chair that he gets seated outside of the shower and the seat slides in. Then purchase a dual hand held shower head usually found for under $100
If dad is a Veteran the VA may help pay for renovations that will allow him to remain safely in your home. If he is unsteady though you might want to try using a Shower Bench or seat. Get one with a back to provide more support though. A hand held shower wand will help him manage the shower himself.
If you do look into putting in a walk in shower look for "Zero Entry" this will eliminate the 1 to 2 inch lip on the shower pan that is difficult to get over with a walker, wheel chair or even someone with mobility problems like neuropathy or drop foot.
If you only have one bathroom I would not be putting just a shower in. It may make it hard to sell your house later. People who have children want a tub.
When I moved my Mother in, I had a powder room we were able to put a shower stall in. Because of the plumbing involved, it cost us about 7K. And I say us because I could not use Moms money in case she would need Medicaid in the next 5 years. It would have cost her a penalty because if we sold the house, we would have profited from having the shower.
There are rails that attach to the side of the tub that help someone get into the tub. As suggested, you use a shower chair and a hand held shower head is a must.
If your bathroom has a floor drain, it may be much easier to set up a shower chair next to the bath, and put a hand held hose on the bath taps that can be used outside the bath. You might be able to do the same thing in the laundry.
Changing a bathroom is very expensive, and you don’t really know whether the move is going to work out. This might be a useful temporary experiment.
If your bathroom has a floor drain, it may be much easier to set up a shower chair next to the bath, and put a hand held hose on the bath taps that can be used outside the bath. You might be able to do the same thing in the laundry.
Changing a bathroom is very expensive, and you don’t really know whether the move is going to work out. This might be a useful temporary experiment.
Call 311 and your county’s area on aging. Put up a go fund me if that doesn’t work. If this all fails and dad can’t get into the bath as it is, perhaps your home isnt the best place for him.
He needs to pay for it, not you. If you are working age and are planning to stay home to care for him, create a contract so that he pays you. He should also pay rent and his share of utilities. If neither of you can afford this then maybe consider a different arrangement, one where he doesn’t live with you.
Before he moves in I strongly recommend he assign you as his durable POA so that as he continues to decline you can legally manage his affairs. See an elder law attorney for this.
please go into this with your eyes wide open. There is very little financial assurance for in-home care. Once he gets into town contact socials for your county to see what services he qualify for, if any.
Pose your question on your local Next Door group. You may find some recommendations. You can also contact your local Aging Agency for ideas. We did this for my dad as it was too expensive for him in his area. It was a great help to him. I wish you well in finding the best plan
Probably not. We had to pay for my parents walk in shower. It cost about 10K to remove the tub and install the shower.with Bath Fitters.
it is also possible to do a tub to walk in shower conversion where the tub is cut. My sister had someone do that for her MIL. It worked well. That would be a lot cheaper option. Research that on line.
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I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
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If he is unsteady though you might want to try using a Shower Bench or seat. Get one with a back to provide more support though.
A hand held shower wand will help him manage the shower himself.
If you do look into putting in a walk in shower look for "Zero Entry" this will eliminate the 1 to 2 inch lip on the shower pan that is difficult to get over with a walker, wheel chair or even someone with mobility problems like neuropathy or drop foot.
If you only have one bathroom I would not be putting just a shower in. It may make it hard to sell your house later. People who have children want a tub.
When I moved my Mother in, I had a powder room we were able to put a shower stall in. Because of the plumbing involved, it cost us about 7K. And I say us because I could not use Moms money in case she would need Medicaid in the next 5 years. It would have cost her a penalty because if we sold the house, we would have profited from having the shower.
There are rails that attach to the side of the tub that help someone get into the tub. As suggested, you use a shower chair and a hand held shower head is a must.
Changing a bathroom is very expensive, and you don’t really know whether the move is going to work out. This might be a useful temporary experiment.
Changing a bathroom is very expensive, and you don’t really know whether the move is going to work out. This might be a useful temporary experiment.
Before he moves in I strongly recommend he assign you as his durable POA so that as he continues to decline you can legally manage his affairs. See an elder law attorney for this.
please go into this with your eyes wide open. There is very little financial assurance for in-home care. Once he gets into town contact socials for your county to see what services he qualify for, if any.
it is also possible to do a tub to walk in shower conversion where the tub is cut. My sister had someone do that for her MIL. It worked well. That would be a lot cheaper option. Research that on line.