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Nacy, I hope things are better this morning for your husband and for you. It’s easy to get worn down this time of year and things that would usually just annoy or make you sad can be amplified. I’m glad you can keep a song in your heart, even if you have to dig a little to uncover it sometimes.

oh hey! Did you get your lizard tattoo? Do you love it?
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My long simmering neighbour dispute has come to the boil again because I got tired of avoiding conflict and confronted him about shovelling his snow into the street - for those who don't see why this is a problem he is up street from me and all this extra snow in the street inevitably ends up in my driveway. I'm so furious and feel so powerless because anything I can do to retaliate would just be cutting off my nose to spite my face.
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Peasuep, my brain kept seeing manager, not manger. Lol , now I get it!!

Golden, thanks I do get down , then I get back up again. I'm actually hearing a song about that in my head, I'll have to look it up and it can be my new power song. OB sent me a text last night, telling me to tell mom not to by him a shirt for xmass. Actually when I even think about the text , I honestly feel like throwing up. The reason I was doing everything is because I don't like the way my brothers treat mom. Now I'm seeing a bit of proof that they are not treating her well. I can honestly it is what mom is use to and in a weird way what she likes. I'm just going to let it go, for now and keep an eye on things. I was down yesterday for a few hours. Then I got back up again. Putting my thoughts where they need to be. Hubby's really sick, with the covid vaccine. This is how he reacts with all vaccines, we were both just hoping "maybe this time it won't happen" we all suspect he has malaria. for a man like your husband, the farmer type he , when he is sick he is sick. I was up and down though out the night. I probably should of PM this, it's a little long winded. Lol

Anyways you are absolutely right, what would be the point of me shoveling and then not being able to do anything for weeks because I hurt my back.
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Out of the mouths of babes...

So glad your home is peaceful this evening. Here too.
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A little Christmas giggle, courtesy of my granddaughter, Nacy.
Hubs is here and all is peaceful at home tonight, thank goodness.
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Sorry peasuep, I'm not sure if I really understand. Where was your husband?

I'm so sorry you are going through this.
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DGD was playing at the kitchen table while DD and I were talking in the next room. Suddenly something falls to the floor - “JESUS!” GD yells from the other room.

DD and I stare at each other, big-eyed. I’m thinking, who are you letting her play with?

Then, from the other room, “YOU GET BACK IN THAT MANGER AND STOP GOOFING OFF; YOU'RE GOING TO HURT YOURSELF!”
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Hi ali - always so good to see you here. I have been down a bit as I started exercising again for the first time after the flu, and it whacked me - brain fog and so on. I didn't realize writing was a chore for you. You do it well.

You are a brave lady to pick neuropsychology. I hope it turns out to be very interesting. I think I would find it so. The anatomy is not so much fun but can be learned. Your prof sounds like a good guy. Hopefully dementias will be mentioned. Please do share with us what you are learning.

I'm glad caregiving turned your path to where you are now. Overcoming dysfunctional family patterns is a hard one. That caregivers develop emotional illness is interesting and not surprising. We see that here, don't we?

Brain and behaviour was always an interest of mine. I started studying physiology, with a special interest in the brain and intended to then move to grad work in psychology, linking the two. I had it set up with a psych prof at McGill. He then suffered some serious family problems and took time off so I went back to physiology. But the interest has always been there.

nacy - distance from dysfunctional families separates us from their toxicity. Thank goodness we have that option.
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Dec. 7, 1941
In Remembrance of Pearl Harbor
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AliB, interesting, I had so much little do with my family for so many years, when I got this caregiveing for mom pushed on my lap, I didn't even see that it was because I'm a women.

I am such an equal rights, advocate, and so is everyone around me, I advoid my family like the plague because they all think women are expected to be just like they were in the 1950s . When my family pushed me into this caregiving roll I didn't even see it as a " women's" roll because after so much distance with them I completely forgot people even still think this way.

It is very interesting
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First week's readings, from An Introduction to Brain and Behavior: "In the United States and many other countries, caregivers are disproportionately female and are often relatives who give up their own careers and other pursuits (see Sharma et al., 2016, for more on gender disparities among caregivers and gender differences in the impact of caregiving; as the study indicates, more research is needed). Half of these caregivers develop emotional illness, primarily depression or anxiety, or both, after a year or so."

This paragraph was included in a discussion about stroke, stroke victims, and the extending effects of the subsequent necessary care.

This is not news to anyone here. I just thought it was an interesting paragraph.
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Nacy, thanks for being excited with me and for me! :)

I prefer "woman." lol Trying to be a self-made, achieving what I can, doing the work day in and day out, woman. lol

I can thank my seven years of caregiving for lighting a fire under me to work hard to reclaim a life for myself and also not be the "available" daughter/sister. My immediate family has lifelong issues, and I can't help but want to help them. But if I'm busy with my own life, too busy to be involved in theirs, it's better for me. So, keeping busy with school and work has been good for the past few years.

And I'm right about 7 years out of caregiving life, too. I consider it "ended" when I moved my dad into an IL building closer to other family members in a different state. It's crazy to think it's almost 14 years now: The sudden, unexpected thrust into the middle of intense caregiving life in 2011, and then the very slow healing and finding my way back to a new normal.

AC is a special place to me and saw me through tough times. I like coming back to share here and hope others enjoy hearing from me occasionally. lol
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Ali, that's so exciting, please keep sharing your experiences, I enjoyed reading them, and good for you! " You, go girl!!! ( Or guy, lol)
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Hey all. :) Hope everyone's keeping well. The comment about effective writing is interesting to me. Writing, for me, is such a different animal than communicating in person. Writing things out, even simple things, is a chore and I wish that weren't true for me.

I started two more MS classes today. One is about behavior change procedures, which is a pretty familiar topic to me. The other class is my single MS elective, and I picked the one that other students (in the Facebook group for my major) say is the hardest: neuropsychology.

But it sure seems like a neat topic, doesn't it? And since I'm paying the tuition, I'm getting my money's worth. 😄

I'm excited but a little nervous about taking this class. However, tonight, the professor promised a "neuropsychology without tears" class experience—right before he launched into 30 slides covering nervous system anatomy terms I've rarely heard or read about.

If I learn anything really cool or relevant to dementia care and/or stressed-out caregivers, I'll discuss it here. I'm wondering if dementia, specifically, will be addressed in the class. There was some discussion about TBIs tonight in the first class.

It's a little daunting but exciting to dive into this class. 😅

*And perhaps I finally figure out the "secret" to activating the parasympathetic nervous system. Lord knows I could use more tips on this.
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Thanks Cwillie! 😂 Next time you pray the snow goes someplace else add to that prayer, not to anxietynacy's

Coming down pretty good.
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Kids are getting another snow day today, I'm praying that the expected snow squalls land on somebody else this time
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Psue - you got it It's a blip in the system.
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Peasuep, 😂 gotcha
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Yep, & followed (with no space) with ‘amp’ loses its amp. Learn something new every day.
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I think I keep seeing & because, in HTML, the ampersand symbol may introduce special characters. So an actual ampersand becomes &. I am a tech troglodyte but I overhear a lot around here.

EDIT: Above, in my comment, I actually typed & with amp (no spaces) and it dropped the amp. So let’s see if my lone ampersand symbol gets ‘amp’ after it. Funky!

2nd EDIT: Nope, just getting &.
&
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Nacy, see Send’s last email, halfway down where it says AMP for email, etc.
It isn’t intended to show up but sometimes it does which I assume is a coding issue. (Does that sound like I actually know what I’m talking about? - I don’t, I read it on a geek chat!)
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So in a sentence that says & , it means, " and amplified" ?
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In texting and online communication, "amp" is an abbreviation for "amplified" and is used to emphasize or intensify the meaning of the preceding word or phrase. For example, "Players either get amped by the electricity of the event". 

"Amp" can also refer to:
Ampere: A unit of electric current that measures the amount of electrons flowing through a conductor per second 

Amplifier: A device that increases the amplitude of a signal 

Accelerated Mobile Pages: A mobile-friendly website page format that speeds up page display on mobile devices 

AMP for email: A feature that transforms traditional emails into interactive platforms

LOL Alva, You need to enter search for "What does amp mean in Filipino".

Traveling further down the rabbit-hole, we have this explained in the Urban Dictionary:
AMP
Urban Dictionary
https://www.urbandictionary.com › define › term=AMP
Noun: Acronym for the three things every woman should look for in a man. Ambition, Money, and Power.



 
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OK, guys. We got the & down for sure. I did know that one. But what is amp. Is that meaning that & is the ampersand? In total. I guess I can get that. But why not just &.
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There are movies,
some of us have seen.

Marley & Me 2008
The Prince & Me 2004
Roger & Me
You & Me 2018

All of these movie titles (and more) use the ampersand (&) instead of
the actual word "AND".

It would be unconsciously understood.
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Sends can you put & in a sentence that makes sense for us
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AMPERSAND (&)

The ampersand, also known as the "and sign", is the logogram &, representing the conjunction "and". It originated as a ligature of the letters of the word et (Latin for "and").[1]

Why is it called ampersand?
Ampersand, term used to refer to the symbol &, which stems from the ligature of the Latin word et, meaning “and.” The term ampersand is derived from “and per se and.” The symbol has also been used as part of &c in lieu of etc. (et cetera).Oct 28, 2024

You & Me against the world.

et al = and all of us against the world.

I so very much agree with Cwillie, and she is not such an old lady!
When she wrote:
"if you want to be understood then write properly".
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I looked it up. It’s a symbol conversion issue between the sending system and the receiving system. Which is a better way of saying it than I said before but why it happens and why someone hasn’t fixed it is a mystery.
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Oh, I get it. I believe “amp” appears when a symbol is used and the system does not recognize it in that setting. I have seen it in place of quotation marks or commas too. The person on the sending end does not see it, only the person on the receiving end.
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Sorry--it is this that confused me:
it says "&".
I got the "&" meaning and. But the "amp"? What the heck are they talking? And it is very very common on AC right now. Which kind of makes me question what's up.
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