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It was a peaceful end. I will miss the person he was long ago and I am glad he is finally out of his misery. He was a kind decent man. He loved us kids and he loved his wife of 71 years. He was a family man and you could count on him to show up for us. This has resonated with me recently as I have just witnessed my son in law leaving his family for another woman after a 5 year affair and I realize how lucky we were that dad never would have considered doing this.. The pain of someone doing this is profound.
My dad was a chemical engineer and just loved talking about adhesives (he could make your eyes glaze over, lol). He was very proud that he graduated from NYU. He was an inventor.
Having trouble processing I won't be going back to the nursing home anymore. But I am grateful that I've seen the last of that place.
I want to thank you fellow caregiver travelers for the support you gave me and for putting up with my vents and rants. I won't be posting as much anymore but will drop in now and then.
I wish you all the best.

HotHouse, I'm so sad to hear about the loss of your wonderful dad.

You've provided so much wisdom and support to all of us; I really hope you check in often.
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(((((Hugs)))))) Deepest condolences. You have some wonderful memories. I am glad he passed peacefully and you don't have to visit any more. You have had some rough years and deserve a break. Peace and healing.
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I am so very sorry. It sounds like he had a wonderful life, and gave his family one as well.
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I'm sorry for your loss, even when we expect it it's never easy
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I’m glad you had a good dad for so long and am sorry for the loss. Wishing you healing and peace in the days ahead
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I'm sorry for the loss of your dad. He sounded like a great father and man.
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My sincere condolences on the loss of your dear dad HHF. He was a wonderful man who will be greatly missed, no doubt. Please do stick around to help others with your wisdom.
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So sorry for your loss xxx
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My condolences to you for your loss.
You were fortunate to have such a great Dad. I'm sure you'll miss him every day for a long time. At least he knew you cared and were there for him.
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I feel like I just read a farewell speech by someone who just retired out of caregiving. My sincere condolences at the loss of your wonderful, well-loved Dad but I'm happy he's also promoted out of his mortal body. May you receive healing, restoration and peace in your heart going forward.
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My condolences for the loss of your dad.

I’m sharing also: Last May, I lost my brother to cancer at age 77, and I attended his funeral in Oregon last week. He was an organic chemistry professor and will be dearly missed.

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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you will have such sweet memories of your dad.
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Hothouse, my deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved dad! What a wonderful person. I’m glad the end was peaceful and I hope you are comforted by the memories of the special love you got to share with him.
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God bless you and keep you and bring you comfort and peace! Your dad was an amazing man! I am sorry for the painful journey you and he had to walk. Glad his end was peaceful.
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I'm sorry for your loss. Be well.
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How very blessed you were to have a dad who loved you so and who you could be proud of to the end. That is huge.
I hope that once things have calmed down in your world that you will be back to pass on the knowledge and encouragement that you received and share it with others still in the struggle.
May God bless you and keep you.
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Big Hugs ,sorry for your Loss.
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So sorry for your loss.
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My condolences on the loss of your beloved dad. He must have been an amazing guy! I'm glad his passing was peaceful, and I hope you find acceptance in your heart as you heal from your caregiver's journey.
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