handing out money, writing checks to anyone, not remembering and lashing out at me as her caregiver, because she did these things and I was not there of did not know until it is too late. she needs daily care and this will only progress to hourly care and I need to safeguard her from any further losses to be able to care for her in the long term
Jbozman: you can also eliminate many of the same problems by signing up for online payment (paperless) payment of Mom's bills.